Friday, February 6, 2009

Just Not That Into You

So I'm single, not doing that much mingling. I went out with this guy a few weeks ago. I am not feeling him. I can go down a list of reasons why but I will spare you my rambling. Let's just say I am older and feel like his big sister when we talk. I thought I had told him this in so many words without being blunt. But he is very persistent and keeps calling Every day. I know men have various good ways of telling us they don't want to be bothered, but as a woman how do you tell a guy you are just not into him?

(If you want to know some of the reasons let me know)


  1. Just tell him that you aren't into him and your reasons if your deem necessary. As long as you communicate with him he's going to think he has a chance. BUT he may not get it and you'll have to ignore the brotha.

  2. You just have to be politely honest with him. Some don't catch subtle hints. Sometimes being honest doesn't work either.

  3. Thanks ladies. Points well taken. I'll let you know the outcome.